Preteens education is very important. Stages of education in this phase is closely related to the phase of early childhood education. When the children get proper education at an early age, it is not hard to educate them in this phase. Early childhood education is the foundation of the educational process at a later stage.
Children in pre-puberty age (7-14 years) have a different character from an earlier age, but they can not be equated with children. This is where parents must be wise, especially if you have more than one child at different ages. Parents can be prosecuted for the right to all children.
We will harvest from our children, when they were aged 18 years and over, according to which we planted when meraka aged 12 or under. Children ages pre-teen was trying to find her identity, her curiosity is very large. The emergence of juvenile delinquency, the main cause is the failure to educate them in the pre-teen age.
What should parents do in order to successfully educate their children?
1. Make peace with yourself.
Parents also a human being, certainly had no problems. Parents should try to make peace with all of her problems, then dispose of the waste. Do not let children into impingement of the complexity of the problem it faces. Upon entering the house, then the parents should throw the first problem in the workplace. So as to meet with the child in a state of heart good and comfortable. Children can menaangkap anxiety parents’ hearts and will make them uncomfortable and ultimately away from her parents.
2. Know and understand our children.
Children were ordinary people, must have certain characters that must be understood parents. No child is cheerful, chatty, easy story. But, there is also a quiet boy, not easy stories and happy to be alone. Parents must understand how his character and what to do to guide their children.
3. Understand each agenda
Kids seven and over are usually already have their own agenda of activities with her friends. Parents should understand their need to socialize, but not to run out chance with his son. There are good, when taking children traveling not to clash with the child shared his agenda.
4. Apply KNK.
Namely communication, negotiation, and consequences. Parents should establish healthy communication with their children. Be the vent that is convenient for their children, so that when the child is upset she would run to her parents not to others. Healthy communication is to be built when the child is still small.
Negotiations, that parents do not immediately say yes all the child wants, but negotiate. For example, when a child wants to watch, so that parents negotiate reduced hours watching it, what movie to be watched, and so forth.
Consequently, children accustomed to accept the consequences of his attitude. Parents do not always help the purposes of the child, let them learn to take care of themselves, so that there will be consequences that he had received. For example, children learn lazy clearing the table, let alone do assisted cleared so that children feel the consequences.
5. Meet the needs of children according to age and sex phase. For example girls, should be invited to travel more often at his father, with whom dining, and shopping. Let him the story of his father. It is very effective to prevent it from free association with the opposite sex because it met their needs. So did the boys, should be compact with her mother. Be mother in-group with her son.
6. Being a role model
In this pre-teen age, children are more happy to see an example of an order, then the parents should be a good example for their children.
Pre-teen son will surely experience many things that have never experienced before. We make it a habit to talk to them about anything they want to know. Instead they are asking people who do not clear their understanding. If their curiosity satisfied at home, they will not look for it outside.